
Weddings are a celebration of love, commitment, and new beginnings. Whether you’re attending the ceremony or sending your love from afar, a thoughtful message in a wedding card is a meaningful way to share in the couple’s joy. If you’re unsure what to write in a wedding card, don’t worry—this guide offers heartfelt and creative wedding wishes for every type of relationship and personality.
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How to Write a Wedding Card Message
Writing a wedding message doesn’t have to be complicated. The key is to keep it sincere and appropriate for your relationship with the couple. Here are a few simple tips to help you get started:
- Start with a warm greeting and congratulations.
- Share a personal wish, memory, or blessing.
- Close with your name and a final note of cheer.
Not sure how formal or casual to be? Keep reading for message ideas for every situation.
Wedding Wishes for Every Style
Every couple is unique, and your wedding wishes can reflect that. Whether you want to be sweet, funny, formal, or casual, these examples will inspire your message.
Classic Wedding Wishes
- Wishing you a lifetime of love and happiness.
- Congratulations on your beautiful journey ahead.
- Here’s to a lifetime of shared dreams and joyful memories.
Funny Wedding Wishes
- Marriage: when dating goes pro. Congrats!
- Wishing you love, laughter, and very few arguments about where to order dinner.
- You’ve found someone who will put up with your quirks forever. That’s real love!
Casual Wedding Messages
- So happy for you both!
- Cheers to love, laughter, and happily ever after.
- Can’t wait to celebrate with you!
Formal Wedding Messages
- Wishing you enduring love and a partnership filled with grace.
- Congratulations on your union. May it be blessed and joyful.
- With warmest regards and heartfelt congratulations on your wedding day.
Wedding Wishes by Relationship
Sometimes your relationship with the couple guides what tone to take. Here are personalized ideas based on who you’re writing to.
Wedding Wishes for a Friend
- I’ve watched your love grow, and I couldn’t be happier for you.
- Here’s to your next big adventure together. You two are a perfect match!
- Congrats to my favorite couple—I’m so honored to celebrate with you.
Wedding Wishes for Family
- So proud to welcome a new member into the family! Love you both.
- Watching you find love has been such a joy. Wishing you a lifetime of happiness.
- To my [brother/sister/cousin], your love story is just beginning, and I can’t wait to see where it goes.
Wedding Wishes for a Coworker
- Wishing you all the best as you step into this exciting new chapter.
- Congratulations on your marriage! Enjoy every moment.
- Here’s to your forever—full of support, teamwork, and joy.
Religious Wedding Wishes
If faith is important to the couple, you may want to include a spiritual sentiment in your message.
- May God bless your union with love, peace, and understanding.
- Wishing you a marriage filled with God’s grace and guidance.
- Praying your journey together is grounded in faith and love.
Inspirational Wedding Wishes
Looking for something a little more profound? These wedding message ideas draw from love, life, and lasting partnership.
- Love is the foundation of everything good—may your days together be filled with it.
- A great marriage is built on friendship, trust, and respect. You’ve got this.
- Here’s to building a life together that’s even better than your dreams.
Quotes and Sayings for Wedding Cards
A well-chosen quote can capture the sentiment perfectly.
- “Love doesn’t make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.” — Franklin P. Jones
- “True love stories never have endings.” — Richard Bach
- “The best thing to hold onto in life is each other.” — Audrey Hepburn
SMS Wedding Wishes (Short & Sweet)
Need something quick for a text or social media post? These short wedding wishes work for any platform.
- So happy for you both!
- Congrats, newlyweds!
- Wishing you love always.
How to Sign a Wedding Card
End your message with a warm, personal sign-off. Here are a few ideas:
- With love,
- Warmest wishes,
- Cheers to your next chapter,
- All my best,
Final Tips for Writing Wedding Card Messages
- Keep it personal—if you have a special memory with the couple, mention it.
- Avoid jokes unless you know the couple well and are confident they’ll appreciate it.
- Don’t stress about writing the perfect thing. The sincerity of your words matters more than elegance.
FAQs
What do you say in a wedding card if you don’t know the couple well?
Stick with something simple and positive like “Wishing you a beautiful life together” or “Congratulations on your wedding day!
Can I use humor in my wedding card message?
Yes! Just make sure it’s light-hearted and appropriate for your relationship with the couple.
Is it okay to write a short message?
Absolutely. A few sincere words can mean just as much as a long paragraph.

Cedric Frazier spotlights wedding music, from first dances to processionals. As a working DJ, he gives insight into song selection and keeping guests on the dance floor. In his free time, Thomas enjoys concert photography, trying new restaurants, and Friday night fires with friends.